I want to clarify what Carol was asking in the shoutbox. The messages we can write in the shoutbox is limited, that's why I made this. There were lots of advices people gave. Some maybe misunderstood what she really means. I think I'm one of them. Sorry, nobody is perfect. hehe.
Her message was "hi to everyone, im here in Hong Kong and i have a dutch bf, we are planning to get married soon but we have some problems about where are we going to get married. Where he can get me in holland faster, can i get a tourist visa first and get the exam there and get married?"
As what I understand on what she mean was " She will get a tourist visa first, then take the exam here in Holland and get married here during her stay." That's why I said no, As what I know and read in IND website. You can't marry and take the exam here if you only have a tourist visa. You have to take the exam in the place where you are living and apply a family reunification or MVV to get in here. Marriage is Not a reason to be here faster. Even you are not married, you can come here and stay together. Living together or LIVE-IN has same rules as married couples. You can even choose which last name you wanted to use, if your old last name or your partner's last name.
She was asking too, where is the best place for them to get married. I answered Here in Holland because if you will get married in Philippines, after the marriage you will wait for your marriage contract from NSO then legalize and authenticate it. While, if you and your partner will apply the MVV and will get approve then you can stay here. If you and your partner has all the papers needed, you will get your MVV. My mistake is, I forget she is living in China. I don't know how fast are the paper processing in Hong Kong, but I think it is faster than Philippines.
There are two ways on applying MVV, thats what they call, Direct Approach and Advice Route. Either of the two is good. If you are not sure on your papers or you are afraid what will be the result, then I advice you take the ADVICE ROUTE. If you are very sure with the papers, your partner's income and all, then take the Direct Approach.
If I made some errors or forget something, just comment on this post.
Thank you for visiting and reading in my blog. I just want to share my ideas and experiences about this issues. Have a nice day everyone!
Wednesday, September 16, 2009
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3 comments:
I enjoyed reading your blog but I noticed some of the information or advices you have been posting is confusing and incorrect. For people searching for information this will feel frustrating. For instance: in this entry you mention "Living together or LIVE-IN has same rules as married couples. You can even choose which last name you wanted to use, if your old last name or your partner's last name." That's not totally correct. This only applies to people who are married or have 'registered partnership'. If you and your partner are just living together without marriage or registered partnership, you can't use your partner’s family name as your own.
Here's some additional knowledge in case you (or any other readers) don't know what 'registered partnership' means.
Registered partnership originates from the time that gay people were not allowed to marry... For them the 'registered partnership' was developed, a legal means giving them about the same rights as married people, without formally being married.
Nowadays gays can marry too, but some people (also straight people) still prefer registered partnership, because they don't (yet) want to marry for whatever reason. The registered partnership gives the other partner some legal rights, in case of breaking up or death.
You know sometimes you cannot apply what you've experienced to other people because each of them has his or her own issues. Copying and pasting this information from other website and posting it to your own blog doesn't make any sense unless you explain it properly. And since you are in "advice business" why don't you give the meaning of some abbreviations (like MVV, IND) for your readers to fully understand? Sincerely, meneer De Uil
Thank you for the corrections Meneer. As what I said in this post, I am no perfect that knows everything. Yes my experiences can't be applied to all of the readers but at least they have Ideas on where to go first.
If you are giving advices too or writing, maybe you can share your site here so people can read your site too.
Goedendag!
You're welcome!
Meneer De Uil
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